We didn't have the Thanks Giving we thought we would have. They went to get my sister to have Thanksgiving dinner with her and the rest of the family and found her sitting on the floor pass away. So all thangs being what they are now days we all dropped what we thought we were going to be doing and switched into getting her funeral set up and over with in three days giving nobody around here any time to get any rest. That's why I disappeared from the Remmie forum. So the real pain of her passing this way hasn't had time to set in on her children and grandchildren and the rest of us with Christmas almost on top of us. I guess it's another one of those times when you haft to let time do some healing and let the dust settel